There is a many of frustrated dumped guys out there that are just sitting and asking what they should do to get their ex back. Do not go if one of them for observing you knows why? That's why you're going to act on this plan you get your ex girlfriend back soon.
1. Control of your emotions. Throw them away as fast as you can.
Not willing to do anything for her, even when they don't ask it. In your desperation to win her back would you change and do pretty much everything you say. This is the worst thing you can do. You are begging to be taken for granted.
The sad thing is that, if this happens that your girl probably will encourage them to do so. You must realize that you're taking advantage of you, basically are just caress his ego. That woman would be a man practically falling over her and she's begging to make bids than?
That is why it is so important to your emotions. Monitor your emotions show desperation and more often than not they don't make promises that you will not believe it anyway. They assume that you will get back.
So, what you need to do is detach yourself. Do not show that you care. Emotionally keep yourself a distance from her. Then you'll see an immediate positive response from her.
Suddenly you start getting interested in what you're doing. How much are loosened, the more they will start wondering why and instinctively try to get your attention.
2. You are not just her friend
Stop behaving as if I were her friend. Stop listening to all his problems and try to find solutions to all problems. This is not your place. This is the best place to buddies. The minute you begin to act like you are a friend and not as someone who is more important than just a friend to her, are in trouble. Give it to her by your behavior there is a clear line. You are not there to solve everything for you. There are some things in life that you need to secure for it.
The minute that you do this, you will see a change in her. They will realize that you're not a puppy that will run and doing everything that you ask. Suddenly you’ll find yourself challenged. They will realize that this is another person who can't be pushed around. Women are always interest in a man.
3. Is she dating another guy?
You have found that they are dating someone else. This is the worst thing that can happen for most guys ...Not for you! You're not going to get surprised by this. You're not going to show a shred of jealousy. You are going to pretend that it doesn't matter a fig if she is dating someone else.
You instead go to play the same game in reverse. Too close to another woman that she does not like it at all. Just make sure there is someone who knows. This will cause an immediate reaction. Jealousy will lead her back to in no time. After the above steps carefully is a sure way to get your ex girlfriend back and fast.
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